Key Imagery and Symbolism
The Marilyn Monroe reference is crucial here - it represents everything glamorous, rebellious and exciting about the mother's youth. She was the centre of attention, confident and free-spirited before motherhood changed everything.
Religious imagery appears through "Mass" and Catholic references, showing the social expectations women faced in the 1950s. Yet the mother was rebellious - teaching dance steps after church, staying out late despite knowing she'd get "a hiding" from her own mother.
The "ballroom with the thousand eyes" is a powerful metaphor, possibly referring to a disco ball where everyone watched her dance. This contrasts sharply with her later role as a mother, where she's no longer the centre of attention.
Callout: "The decade ahead of my loud, possessive yell was the best one" - the speaker acknowledges that her birth ended her mother's freedom, creating a sense of guilt and appreciation.