The Two Fathers: Representing Two Spains
The stark contrast between Mariano and José perfectly encapsulates the film's central theme about Spain's transformation from dictatorship to democracy - they're both father figures, but they represent completely opposite approaches to family and authority.
Mariano embodies Franco's Spain: authoritarian, violent, and controlling. He marks Pablo with cuts and bruises from violence, uses degrading language, and maintains power through fear and intimidation. His family lacks love, conversation, and genuine relationships.
José represents New Spain: democratic, loving, and respectful. When he "marks" Alfredo, it's with a tattoo given from love, not violence. He treats Marisa as an equal, uses discipline with understanding rather than brutality, and even when he swears, it's in a loving, joking manner.
The key difference lies in their discipline styles: Mariano shouts, grabs, and loses control ("answer me, answer me!"), while José never uses force and explains his actions with "I'm saying this because I love you." This contrast shows how authority can be exercised through love rather than fear.
Essential Contrast: José says "You aren't my son but I'm acting as if you are" - the opposite of Mariano's rejection and abuse of Pablo.