Dido: The Tragic Queen
Dido's character arc is absolutely heartbreaking, and Virgil uses her to explore themes of leadership, love, and ultimately, the cost of Roman destiny.
Initially, Dido appears as an ideal leader—she's compared to Diana, gives laws to her people, and shows remarkable hospitality to the shipwrecked Trojans. Her famous line "Through my own suffering, I am learning to help those who suffer" shows genuine empathy and wisdom.
However, Venus's intervention changes everything. The goddess literally poisons Dido with uncontrollable love, making her a victim of divine manipulation rather than personal weakness. Notice how Virgil makes this clear—Dido "will not know" she's been enchanted.
The imagery of Dido as wounded doe in Book IV is particularly powerful. She's described as having an arrow "sticking into her side" that "will bring her death"—she's literally been hunted and wounded by forces beyond her control. The flame "eating the soft marrow of her bones" shows love as a destructive, consuming force.
Tragic Irony: Dido must be destroyed for Rome's destiny to unfold—her death represents the collateral damage of imperial ambition.